Who is a child Man?

There are many behaviors that should clue people in as to whether a man falls into the category of extreme immaturity. These include but are not limited to:
continually arriving late to dates, social events and meetings,
spending too much time doting on himself,
ignoring responsibilities,
never taking blame,
cheating of any kind,
borrowing things and not returning them,
lying to protect his ego and interests,
ignoring or downgrading the needs of other people,

being unreasonably romantic or unreasonably cold towards the woman in his life,
flirting with other women while with his wife or girlfriend and

refusing to share work loads with his wife.
In short a man-child is a person whose every behavior shouts out “me, me, and me”. He spends his life fawning on himself and taking care of his own needs while treating others in his life as though they owe him.

What to Do

Dealing with a person who has this personality flaw is not easy, especially if you have allowed yourself to go too far into the relationship.
On the one hand, if you try to ignore the things he says and does, he will become progressively aggressive in his behaviors.

On the other hand, if you try to change his ways, disagree with him or get in the way of anything he wants to do, you’re going to be fighting all the time.

So, if you are not yet involved, your best bet is to walk away from the relationship.
If you are emotionally or legally tied into the relationship and want to maintain it, the best you’ll be able to do is try to compromise on the most important issues.

For example, my own ex husband was a totally undisciplined spender. Nothing I could do would keep him from wasting our money. He would even go so far as to try and hide things that he purchased!

We both worked, but he was using far more than his fair share of our income for his own needs.

As a result, I opened up a separate bank account in my name only, deposited my paychecks into it, divided our living costs and told him whatever he had left over would be his to spend.

He soon ran out of money, but I refused to budge. I would not pay his share of the bills or any of my money towards the toys he wanted to have.

It wasn’t a perfect solution, but it eliminated any resentment I had about his spending habits. Ironically, he eventually agreed to let me cut up all of his credit cards. The result was that after a few years, we became debt free, and this made him very happy!

Compromise or Leave

You will never be able to totally compromise with a man-child, nor should you try to do so. If compromise at all is not possible, you will then have to decide whether you want to remain in the relationship or leave it.
It is very hard at the beginning lf any relationship to see what an individual really is like. This is why you should always give things plenty of time before making any long term commitments.

Learning how to recognize and deal with a man-child is one of the most important things you can ever do to protect yourself from having an unhappy relationship, so taking the time to learn the whole truth is well worth your effort.

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