How to become a submissive wife 7 tips for you.

1. Let Him Be Your Hero

Men by nature want to feel heroic. It is why they come to our rescue when we are in need. So let him protect you, provide for you, and hold you when you are in deep sorrow. You will love him all the more for it. A submissive wife accepts her husband’s heroism happily. Your husband loves you and wants to do anything he can to please you and make you happy. Give him the chance to sweep you off your feet and hold you up when you are feeling down.

2. Listen to What Your Husband Says, But Don’t Always Answer

Your husband will often complain about work, about politics, about the state of the world. Men always have a vision of how the world around them should ultimately be run. You will often internally disagree with what he says, for example, even thinking he is wrong in how he handled a disagreement at work. Acknowledge what your husband feels, saying only the minimum. This serves to allow him to express his stresses while also relaxing him, knowing he won’t have another debate on his hands to add to his stress. Trying to change him or nagging him for his attitude makes the situation worse, instead focus on supporting him and being there for him.

3. Always Look Beautiful for Him, Especially Around the House

Your husband wants to come home to the attractive woman that you are. Keep yourself in shape as best you can, wear a feminine hairstyle (medium to long length), and wear form-fitting clothes—even tight sweats will do. You don’t need to wear makeup. Just keep your face fresh looking (maintaining your eyebrows, for example). If you take the time to embrace your feminine side and look beautiful, your husband will notice and he will be very happy that you are taking the time to look good.

4. Become a Housewife, If You Can Financially Manage It

You must, of course, like the idea of taking this route. Realize your attention to the home in creating an oasis of warmth will create a special world of love that nothing the outside world can break. Being a traditional housewife is a joy unto itself. You will not have the 40-hour workweek deadlines that so many other woman have. You won’t be frantically trying to balance commuting, workload, and stress with the cleaning, cooking, decorating, and lovemaking you need to make a house a home. You might have less money coming into the house, but you will still have a happier marriage. Creating an inviting home environment for your husband and your children (if you have them) is a job in and of itself so it will not be easy. However, there are numerous benefits of being a housewife and doing so will help your marriage thrive.

5. Care for Your Husband’s Wishes

Maybe he’ll tell you he’s in the mood for his favorite cake or that he wants the floor vacuumed. Instead of saying, “Do it yourself,” or “Yeah, when I get done the million things I already have to do,” just say “Alright honey,” or “I’ll make a note of it.” Even if you don’t get to something right away, you have told him that his wants are important to you and that you want him to be happy. By paying attention to his needs you are sending the message that you care about him and that he matters to you.

6. Cry Instead of YellYell

You will often naturally cry, but anger is also usually best expressed as sadness, even if it isn’t natural. If your husband makes you irate with something he says, perhaps it’s critical, belligerent, or he’s just getting too loud for your tastes, instead of letting a battle ensue, bring on some tears. Tears have a way of either softening his mood, quieting him down, or making him walk away. Every married couple will go through bad moods and fights, even very bad ones. Maybe he’ll still grumble after you cry a little, but you will have achieved the ultimate goal: dissipating the hard emotion in the room. If you don’t feel the urge to cry, excusing yourself and leaving the room can work as well.

7. Ask Him for Favors When You Know He Is in His Most Relaxed StateState

Often this is after work, especially on Friday nights. If you need something from your husband or even have to give him bad news, realizing when he can best absorb the information without getting stressed out will often make the difference in how he feels, and in turn, how you will feel. Consider his feelings and his mindset before you ask him to do something. If he has just had a hard day it work, it would be a good idea to hold off on asking him to do something, instead you should wait until a better moment.

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